4th person and 4th kind feelings

4th person

Many years ago, on a magazine, have seen a article, content is about 4th kind feelings. Author is woman, she is so to the definition general idea under 4th kind feelings: Kiss a kind of feelings besides feelings, love and friendship , exist between opposite sex , is more few than love , is more than the friendship.

She is this kind of as saying to claim

Have person to prank land also define to 4th person: Interest idea is similar or appreciation opposite side certain on the one hand men and women, it is foundation to be taking not destroy the family and marriage of opposite side as prerequisite in order to not interfere the working life of opposite side, it does not be condition with money trade , does not seek legal family position, enjoying only with spirit or human body besides the marriage of purpose sexual behavior. Since being different from general prostitution to go whoring and seek , the third party that takes it over so claims 4th person. When social competition intense, survival pressure today of increase, a lot of persons have been the association with 4th person the another kind of way of the spiritual enjoyment and release of working pressure. 4th person originates from the office of the national people of public affairs to love feelings , develops in enterprise boss , government official have a concubine , develop in single noble with a night feelings of the stratum of white collar , popularize in the contract husband and wife of college livelihood. 4th person phenomenon is the outcome of the influence of Western culture , but has no obvious destructiveness for the strong impact of the morals idea that says to advocate of Kong Meng with society for family , and has satisfied people to long for new opposite sex , the nature that quest stimulates recently, 4th person phenomenon has had the tendency that quickly permeates to each age part and each stratum of society, the conservative countryside even idea, more and more stay behind wife and husband have also joined the ranks of 4th person. No wonder Hu sociology scholar cries out in alarm: It is not that 4th person inserts into family , but is that 4th person inserts into society.

4th this kind of person,

Between the bosom friend of opposite sex whether appearance love, I want to also have appearance the composition of love? Otherwise between, of each other those concern , worry , miss as well as together those sweet, relieved and joyful feeling again makes what explanation?

But this kind of appearance love, wish Britain Taiwan, Luo Mi Ou and Zhu Li Ye to also have great difference with Liang Shan Bo, is not as that they is silly and mad , so crazy evil spirit, so disregarding everything, life and death are wanted together.

Lover is with body, it is purpose to blend , bosom friend is with soul collision is to high extent reached. So lover is first to attract by the exterior of opposite side, fall in love at first sight , covet the body of opposite side; And as bosom friend, will not admire as soon as seeing , is along with contact day is many, rub the spark of soul gradually.

Allegedly, is passionately18It is flat to then belong to in a month. This is credible , is also normal. Is passionately in love , is born with picture for person make love the climax in process, it is momentary and makes popular feeling drunk. Is passionately in love though make one yearn for with orgasm, but after all, person can not be always in those peak state , is not only the consumption of energy otherwise only , is the overdraw of life. So say flat is most true, no a pair of which lover can be everlasting , but is bosom friend only, may know each other a lifetime.

The bosom friend of opposite sex even have appearance love, even have had passion, because no combustion will not reduce to ashes. After passion draws off , turning is a kind of approximation kiss feelings, it also has love simultaneously and friendship " 4th kind feelings".

Say that Cai E and little phoenix immortal will be other to discuss. Little phoenix immortal is the woman of travel fatigue , is the red face bosom friend with pure Cai E only to be already impossible. Moreover, if she follows Cai E to run away , will be lifelong to accompany , knot is husband and wife, also picture studies is good< xml:namespace prefix=st1 ns="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags"/>< personname w:st=on productid=鍜岃档鍥?With< personname/>Miss is the same to pass

Their story is touching, because when passion yet when have to part , as this Wiener statue, what let one appreciate is incomplete American, sad America. The perfect result of lover is: " prince and princess have closed marriage, since then, pass happy life. " though perfect, it is flat.

銆€銆€Reality is , would not be not parted very much between flirtatious person to passion disappearance, will be wearied about completely afterwards, regard opposite side each other just like wear old broken clothing, not only, love not , and still want to dispose soon impatiently.

And bosom friend