It is 4th to grow feelings

Believe that there are feelings to have the men and women of justice who has had such experience: In life, it is not to say with household to meet tired worry, it is also not to say with the most better friend that is to tell with a special opposite sex in life. Is usual, this one the person that may take the charge of you to say everything not is friend prevail against friend, not is spouse prevail against spouse, not is kinsfolk prevail against kinsfolk. Is natural, here prevail against have prerequisite and condition.A lifetime of person can meet some matters of happy or tired heart unavoidably. Happy matter hope the person that can be acquainted with you shares , the matter of tired heart expectation the person that can be acquainted with you shares. However, fact is nearly impossible to often accomplish. Even if the friend that is on good terms normally very much, the matter for that you feel exceptionally happy is also the expression of a pair of indifferentism, your tired worry changes come to may let you injure pain more coldness. If having got spouse, normally, it is best to say everything object? However in fact and not. If your happy matter is concerning him( she), perhaps, will still feel interest, on the contrary, is nearly impossible to hang the appetite of opposite side. If you tell opposite side tired worry , can not not only get the understanding of opposite side, give you soul go up soothe , still think you behave have problem, this matter does not be all right , that matter in also not, even still say ," seek such spouse still calculate self blind eye" etc. words, let self distressed more.It is together happy with person, this is the normal psychology of person, and this point is deliberately hard and satisfactory in keep with one's wish, so, " this music " also give a discount. If your just happy Ha-Ha land want to share with person opposite side love puts up to pay no attention to , as if pocket head has sprinkled a cold water of gourd ladle, good deed also gains to return a belly goodfornothing air , on the contrary, do not describe , but this again violates with the normal psychology of person. Sometimes even person wants to hear , the person who may want by oneself to hear normally for that does not catch cold , the flattery of opposite side also has no general idea to think. So, in life, have got such a person , a Xi Nu who is willing to listen attentively you is also willing to say everything the person of dirge to you.Woman is relatively weak somewhat , is so willing to seek the shoulder of man to lean , that dependable shoulder may not be husband; Man though is strong somewhat, but it is willing to have fragile gentle female to comfort that strong exterior behind is often hollow , and this female is nearly impossible to be own wife. Naturally, besides spouse, also have got a kind of special spirit to entrust , this kind of spiritual existence entrusted has even formed the life part with frequently important Central Africa.This kind of 4th that we usually say grows feelings in daily life and is not rarely seen , it may have only a person, also or can have is some. Because in the life of everybody, so a or some ones let you worry about at heart. Especially meet , the matter of glad or tired heart is thought of toward the outside time of revealing , this person hangs more often on own heart. If say that let to date , this person is your person who most wants to ask. No matter the shade of willow trees of river bank takes off , in street side dizzy yellow lamplight, in the composition sound with melodious bar, the hot sweat that Disco causes still is dripping wet , are all the best releases of own mood. Regardless of what environment, also regardless of what language, is even clever only for a heart to have Xi expression in the eyes, once seems Chu is not Chu shake hands , make self burst with joy , even if formerly depressed heart also relaxes therewith. This person is opposite sex surely in, your expression in the eyes most appreciation any, natural also appreciate you any. You have perhaps to meet to hate late feeling , but can only be also to hate night, not heart access the attempt of generation, if will really move towards that one step, that convenient is spiritual to overstep the bounds , have surmounted 4th kind feelings , become 3th or fall onto 5th. Have lost if if the marvelous feeling that is away from , also for disaster again is admire any. It is just this kind of distance that goes to benefit exactly to produce that we say frequently that distance produces the existence of beautiful, this kind of feeling. It is excessively long-distance , can have kind to neglect the feeling that is away from; It is too near, also often general survey has no to remain , arising is psychological as regreting. Oh, is however so. Is then, in have that heart he( she) also meeting along with long ear temples Si mill becomes insipid, where will you be still the object that says everything? Is now, repent too late matter is little in, remember if linking beautiful the words written off also therefore, may real bungle is lifelong.The friend heart of first love is relatively simple somewhat, but we can see very flirtatious Kuang is , that dreamy person when own side may be often hard to say to export. Actually, from feature biography feelings obviously opposite side also like self! Say that is true , is still the matter of a level of window paper sometimes really, you do not stab to break it, can not understand. Time will produce some misunderstandings for a long time: He( she) does not like me. Some summaries use little skill, tell opposite side that there is the friend of man ( woman ) by oneself , in order to observe the expression of opposite side. Some possibility is retrieved therefore , some can also go different ways even so still. However, say that accuracy is some , can't still talk about minute, after all, two persons have not made up yet the minute that so says here together , also say merely that is nominal and it is a that having not gone arrive. This may make having not gone go to two a popular feelings to store regret , but also leaves therefore to the future to yearn for. No matter how to say , that is that person who most gets along well and is most easy to find feeling! Even if both sides get married to stand field , return unavoidable meeting some contacts, glad matter share together, vexed matter is shared together, but prerequisite must be to can not cross that special boundary line, once having made line, is again inconsistent with standard.Therefore 4th kind feelings is a kind of very subtle feelings, it does not so fix as kissing feelings, not pass like love at instant, also not picture friendship so adulterates too many is hypocritical and helpless. It so exists independently , can't talk about input and pays out , is a kind of mutual soul comfort.Along with people the unceasing raising of material living standard, the unceasing increase of working pressure, this kind of feelings also more and more exists generally. In even if heart no such a person, or even if self has , , opposite side does not appreciate self, that real calculate gets go up is a kind of feelings goes up is short of to lose. It is had a chat that as compensation, somebody can seek person to some special occasions to accompany , such is also the exchange of money and feelings merely. Money are true, feelings is false , can only rise slightly psychological compensation, with the 4th kind feelings that says here, it is very far to be apart.Kissing feelings, love and friendship is a lifetime of person place must, and 4th kind feelings is the special outcome of different historical period , is that other 3 kinds of feelings can not be replaced. We have no reason to strangle it , have no necessary encouragement more to promote it. Even if what also not do, it also meeting obeies it since person is different to exist naturally. Perhaps in some eyes of popular feeling, the existent meeting of this kind of feelings causes threat especially for other feelings for love, that need not also concern too. After all love is strong and Fou when it, if have sign of disturbance slightly it tottering words, also explain that those superficial love is actually to have no love may speech. Certainly, it is also not that the existence that says this kind of feelings has the 100 sharp a harms that have no , also do not want however forbid airplane flight because of having aviation accident is the same and stupid beyond belief. Is that we hold a yardstick in behavior process importantly, this degree is every experience the person of this kind of passion packs when at heart. More moreover, this kind of feelings exists mostly among the person who knowledge has brains, do not must our many concerns, they since the most sensible choice that can be made.Perhaps, can not use how long, 4th kind of feelings also passes slowly as the third party of same year along with time, a it are more definite and well-known to divide. If say that third party is to often cause bad aftermath openly and wantonly with damage as big prerequisite, 4th kind feelings is the thing of spiritual layer surface on the foundation that is establishment in maintain, what reach is that do you both can defend family solidarity and not do not be because of what music and the dull and lonely silly and raw double effect of being disgusted of family?However or to reiterate: It is more near to must not paste or La- is too far, otherwise, not is two defeats all wound such as castles in the air, this has deviated from the basic principle of 4th kind feelings , is , is related to each other as like as apple and oyster with 4th kind feelings.If have no this adventure in life, do not impose