Everybody can be old

Everybody

My grandfather grandmother this year the years more than 80 , but body is good. In 2005, grandfather carelessness is broken , breaks foot to break. Have not thought of him to seek to live on ability is very strong, after half a year, can walk unexpectedly, life can be been self reliant. Admire the strong will of his home of old man really. It is rapid that having changed young person to recover sink. That is catching me in year, bring daughter to play home, so, have visited him , every time I will go to see their two old mans home , give money them to use. It is moreover this that he has still fallen. It can not be moved that he lies on bed, on foot, hit gypsum , pull with brick. Find out that he is very painful. Weather is hot not, but lie all day long on bed , is still not comfortable. Little aunt is rubing bath to him. It is eaten that I give the money of 200 Yuan him to buy thing , on his mouth, say that not use , say that my economy is tense, but hand has taken everything into own hands , grab tightly. But his few colored money. Hear mother to say , he stays in money completely, is that to give little aunt. All say that his old is confused.

Grandfather grandmother has no son , has only 3 daughters, my mother is old and big. Hear my mother to say , actually, she has elder brother , but falls ill when coming in 10 for year to die. So, little aunt has staied in home , have recruited to visit son-in-law. So, little aunt is daughter , and is daughter-in-law. Normally, say that so, grandfather grandmother should go well than other old mans, because daughter-in-law is daughter. However, fact is not so.

My "uncle" is not local person, general local person will not do here visit son-in-law, unless two persons likes, is hovering between life and death. When former, general do visit son-in-law is the brother in home is many, economic condition is not very good, do not demand the talent of wife to do. "uncle" belongs to this kind of person in those years. But after having passed 78 years, there are well a lot "uncle" condition of parents' home, he wants to bring little aunt his that goes , little aunt also a little wants to have gone. But this is major event, they dare not also go privately , act hastily , get not good reputation , or will solicit the opinion of all. Afterwards, little aunt has canceled this idea still under the persuasion of my pa mother. Because pa mother has spoken a lot of reason with her, say that parents stay in her side, it is also to want to have taking care always , reserves root. If she is hard to go , they also do not stop , two old mans, pa mothers and big aunts can take care of. It is that pa mother persuades effective still little aunt to stung by conscience to just sink to go that I also do not know after all.

Though, little aunt has not gone , but

Originally little aunt they lean to catch fish and grow field makes a living , afterwards, all do not do these , have done business , grow field to have no prospects. Is away from county town because of home is very near, "uncle" has opened little shop in county town to sell to catch fish utensil, business is good. Little aunt also helps in shop, 3 children are big, the reading of reading, working work. Field is grown still , is grandfather grandmother kind however, pair snatches , little aunt they help to help. The little aunt rice that they eat in shop is grown in home , is just bought when it is insufficient. Just in the beginning vegetable takes from home, because little aunt lives every day home, afterwards they are few live completely in shop, get victory in daytime home when ordering dishes. In domestic countryside, have only grandfather grandmother two old mans. They never give money grandfather grandmother to use. Grandfather grandmother thinks that money use , the egg under chicken and the vegetable of growing self takes county town to sell to change some money use , buy the vegetables such as meat fish. It is pa mother to still have give money them with big aunt to use , normally, we also give home , elder brother also gives at home. Elder brother is big since childhood for grandfather grandmother to bring , so often sees them very deeply with their feelings , gives money them to use. Decade ago, elder brother hides family planning to give birth to son , sends own second daughter a birth to my grandmother home to let grandmother bring , gives the money of 300 Yuan grandmother in one month , is so natural that little aunt agree with "uncle", and it is on hand that money give little aunt. Pitiful little girl, when will soon go to primary school luckily afterwards, elder brother takes her , have returned home and parents together. So elder brother for grandfather grandmother special is good.

Elder brother goes to see grandfather grandmother , discovers grandmother illness as a result , has no money to treat , elder brother has given money grandmother to see a doctor , then calls to table younger brother , shows younger brother to just go to see grandmother. Table younger brother also opens shop in county town. This table younger brother is most loved by grandfather grandmother , wants what to want the star on day to what in childhood, grandfather can think of method. However, now, also hear the words of his father , is not good for grandfather grandmother , is never in charge of the life or death of grandfather grandmother. But grandfather grandmother says still that he is good. " uncle " saying for showing younger brother that your grandfather point uses have no , what has not given me , this home is completely that I hit to put together , but for me, this home which have this shape. Table younger brother also hears. There are the money of 500 Yuan in the platform that has the little aunt who has discovered a grandmother at home to pack egg, calling table younger brother unexpectedly ask that grandmother has borrowed completely. These money are my mothers, use with big aunt to her, she grudges to use. Miss the old man that is obstructed.

It is burnt that "uncle" does not give money grandmother to buy coal , say that there is rice straw in home to burn , so grandmother only burns those return have no dry rice straw, when doing meal every time, eliminate smoke to vague , choke person eye flows out tear. That I see home that grandmother is so, it is to have cried that I have been choked. I let grandmother to ask that they want money, grandmother shakes to shake the head.

Hear pa mother to say that "uncle" has too unreasonable grandmother for grandfather. The big daughter of little aunt, is papa does Mei, have married to papa and the son of a friend, in home, condition is very good. However, pa is the matchmaker of the bride's side. In the day of marrying , when bride goes , according to customs, bridegroom will worship on bended knees to the senior of the bride's side in order to appreciate them. At that time, the matchmaker of husband's side brings bridegroom to ask whether papa will worship on bended knees , because of now many courtesies have conformed to simplicity. It is wanted that pa lets them to ask ," uncle". Because he is the father of bride, he has right to say that want , it is grandfather grandmother to still have. However, "uncle" says for them: Do not ask me, ask that two olds not die trip. At that time, pa air has to be true to spit out blood , trouble reputation no hair does. Afterwards, pa has criticized little aunt and them ruthlessly, describe little aunt flows out tear. Papa says , pawns the surface of so many persons , pawn his surface and the surface of own son-in-law, so for grandfather grandmother, can imagine normally how. It is original, "uncle" for pa mother, in heart, it is that , this is afterwards. In pa mother heart, it is very sorry.

I do not understand "uncle" with little aunt how think , them, treat grandfather grandmother, at the time that they also have old , actually, they do not worry about that self is old , is own son daughter-in-law so for them? Common saying says , it has shape to study shape. Little aunt kisses mother still for grandmother, moreover she is daughter-in-law. Everybody has the time that parents and everybody have old.