7 kinds has no feelings of result

" time may change everything" this words are not false , but are put in love, you have to think over. Change the situation of your embarrassment if you are now attempting , 7 kinds of following condition for your reference. Choice right on your hand, responsibility is with you , you will choose , is for person. Have no love of result, let go still as soon as possible.

As soon as

You are talking about love , but do not understand to decide the opinion of opposite side; You feel that you are very suitable, he seems to take a dim view; He not when you miss him very much, you not when he seems to have no difference, does this express what?

" 2 persons if is not concentric , how could colleague members? " time can have the case that one side likes another side comparatively , if in the feelings of well developed, it can have the phenomenon of superseding , two persons play the role of in turn the role that pursues and have been pursue; But always play the role of pursuit if having one side, such feelings is imperfect, long , your meeting for love Ji is thirsty, you will feel that by the control of opposite side, you can feel angry , are deceivedNetwork.

2 you love is

What you like is the potentiality of opposite side, instead of appearance with genuine opposite side, what you like is that opposite side appearance of future possibility, that he foundation is not your companion, and it is the object that you reform.

Will we ask every time before making marriage that if opposite side will not change in 50 years, you can satisfy? If you always hope to be able to change opposite side, just feel that comparison is satisfactory, that is not love , but is gamble, use the happiness of both sides to regard as stake. You contact with with a person, you may in order to hope that he continuesNetwork, but you must

3 you want

Do you feel frequently that opposite side is very pitiful? Do you feel that self has responsibility to help opposite side to brace up? You can fear if departure opposite side, can he cannot bear strike? If is , you are afraid is " Ge save disaster mad ".

" save disaster mad " will not go to seek a suitable object , but is to seek a object that he sympathizes with and may help. Seek one to receive after wound, it is fragile , relies on , had been not liked , the person of grievance, you from pity raw love, his meeting for you heart livelihood thanks, such feelings picture is a rescue task, instead of completeness, balanced feelings.

So, we do not encourage brother guidance sisters or sisters to give tutorials to brother, because of the person who has seventy percent meeting from pity raw love. Take charge of the person of rescue task , is often to think sympathetic mistake to like.

Here, be been by the key remembered" respect ", the object that you like must be the person that you can respect , you must do not want your rescue with opposite side for honor and your companion want your genuine understanding he.

4 of opposite

Young female star directs on love, university student instructs on love, the secretary likes boss . . .. It is normal that this kind of feelings and the object worshiped on love are nearly impossible to keep , because it can not be equal to treat between two persons.

Male and female both sides must be equal to treat , I level to denote position , but am attitude, can not over worship opposite side. Will like to worship the person for elephant, usually, self-confident heart is low, they feel that self is very terrible.

Jesus says: You when spouse if already, do you how

Your 5 are to

Everybody can beNetworkSelf is deeply attracted by the certain material of opposite side , will ask self, if opposite side no that pair of blue eye, magnetic sound . . .. If opposite side is not model, will not hit blue ball . . .. Can I still follow him( she) together? " bright-colored is falseNetworkIt is superficial; The

6 momentary

You and opposite side share certain work , oftenNetwork, you feel that seem to have fallen into feelings net . . .. Momentary get along all the time, denoting in special condition take off pool when a, this kind of feelings can not be lasting , because of short time get along all the time, can not make you complete know the character of opposite side.

Parents always emphasize with you that will seek rich object, deliberately your every boy friend is pauper; Since childhood, it is very casual that father disciplines strict, deliberately your every girl friend for you; Since childhood father ear mentions surface life, biography fragrant fire is the most important matter, deliberately your girl friend not can not be born with is to not want to give birth.

If youNetworkObject, always make parents be angry , very probably, your is to think of rebel against, you feel that must prove that what strikes back , when you can not control own choice, you are not wholehearted love opposite side, this feelings is doomed to have no result.