From the viewpoint of power of Buddha, talk about feelings problem

Feelings problem is seen from the stand of power of Buddha , is analysed certainly from the angle of life phenomenon; Because feelings is the relation between person and person, for example Chinese says 5 Lun , it is to speak monarch subject and the relation between father son, spouses, brother and friend , is also feelings, and this is just actual life phenomenon. This kind of life phenomenon and Buddhism analyse it , is 3 elements, is Huo , field and fruit newspaper.But here, we regard as field with fruit newspaper,

Talk about Huo, first we will know feelings intension is actually very complex, it is the comprehensive expression of our entire heart. Power of Buddha feelings, mood, character and the state of mind of speaking us normally place in entirely heart place this idea, for different psychological phenomenon and mood change, sum up the 51 hearts of analysing , this is the intension of human nature. Life has two special qualities, one is good( mercy place); One is bad( vexed heart place), there are many compositions( heart place) each in the special quality of good and evil, and these compositions are intricate of each other to deliver to suit , have formed the feelings of various different type form to show elephant. So, feelings problem, if our is to know since the table elephant of feelings goes , will receive sleepy the variation of feelings can't grasp the core of problem. The relation between husband and wife, some picture the sister of elder brother, some picture father woman, some picture friend, some picture lover, even some picture personal enemy; It is same, papa also has a lot different type for daughter and mother pair son. So, only when we understand person and person, the final crucial point of feelings is the comprehensive expression of the depths of human nature , is the essence of human nature, our talent for feelings problem does the most faithful comment of one prison.

Shi Me is the special quality of the evil and good of human nature? Basically, vexed heart is the composition for that our heart has pollution , includes coveting , _ , is silly, slow , Yi , not just see etc. basic worry and some follow worry; Mercy, denote for us life promotes , as letter , is shrewd to enter , Buddhist decides , is intelligent , have no to covet , have no _ , have no is silly, light to install , do not put ease and ashamed etc.. Generally speaking, if feelings is pure, probably is from letter , is ashamed , have no greedy stand to leave , analogy is been loyal to for head of state , is obedient for papa, this is to leave from letter, is also that he thinks that this is good, it is correct , accepts this idea , has so produced the psychology of obedient heart and loyalty. However for male and female feelings, the most key element is greedy between( natural father son, brother, friend and monarch subject part is to rely on coveting to reach. ) covet because of having , our heart can not reach the most deep pure arising and that produces feelings and feelings , is to get coordination each other , gets communication. And if two aspects become exclusion, are _. Is Shi Me can covet? Meeting _? Is because is silly, this is the worry with the most deep human nature. Since go up, we have been the male and female crux of feelings to the element coveted in human nature , receive to compose us and then analyse male and female feelings continuously from greedy angle. There are a lot greedy object, in which, color is coveted first , family dependents covets is second, other still has wealth, name and meal , sleep etc., for example, somebody covets the beautiful look of wife , has person to covet the money of wife , has person to covet the good vegetable that wife burns , has person to covet sweet words , this is greedy work. But covet the lust of the deepest work between men and women, this is the most basic thing of the male and female feelings of holding together. Male and female lust has 4 levels, this 4 level essences are the same, but degree has difference. The first layer of is color , is also the beautiful look of external greedy work; Second is feelings. So-called feelings are that the two spirits of popular feeling have got communication point, no matter any communication is counted , metropolis produces feelings. Not only so, it is also so between men and women between friend. So, sometimes, expert suggests to seek common hobby between husband and wife , is actually to seek communication point , is also the training of feelings. 3th is love, love already is a kind of hold work, is no matter you love does not love me, anyway, I love you! This is different with feelings, it need not link up. 4th level is Yin want. Yin want is physiological reaction, comparison is dirty, no matter having color, feelings and love, its is a kind of psychological reaction that must solve. This 4 levels are to covet the feelings of work mutually between men and women to hold. So if have no method to surmount this 4 levels , can sink into the male and female whirlpool of lust surely and is vexed. Above speak , it is the feelings that says men and women , should not see from certain one. Today is Shi Me can divorce? It is that greedy work of each other has already had no surely, or outside greedy work is more strong than for the greedy work of wife; And between some husband and wife, foundation has had no attraction, is Shi Me again do not divorce? This possibility is for reputation, for child. So, the problem of feelings is not the problem of liking to not like , but has quiet heart and Fou problem. Today is Shi Me he can love a person of not this love, and give up the person that he should like , is because his worry is heavy, too foolish and silly , goodness is too weak. If this person his soul is pure, he stands in any angle , can subdue his worry , let his goodness arouse , opposite side again Zen Me is unreasonable, facing again big difficulty, he will not make feelings shatter. So, how to arouse the goodness of person subdue the worry of person , are just to solve person thoroughly between person the key of feelings problem. Today, we see any case of feelings, must introspect human nature is short of regret, know that will surely be the state that has the vexed heart that blocks him and lets other person fall into ignorance and cause wrong decision. This is first theme of today - - Huo.It is second and partial to talk about field and the problem of fruit newspaper. We frequently speak fall in love at first sight is so. Today, you are not to meet him , can not close marriage , this is field force , is your fruit newspaper( natural this is not that everybody is so. ) so, Chinese speaks the two factors of spouses combination, one is to pay a debt of gratitude , one is to avenge. The husband and wife of conjugal love pay a debt of gratitude , kindness lets justice is unique, the son of future generations will not close , is husband and wife; If great kindness is still unfinished or recover to close to recover deeply, the son of future generations will close still, is spouses, can't run , so, we can not like person casually. Today, we know that the strength of field force is known , fall out between husband and wife, half belongs to field force, half belongs to worry. Is because you have hatred with him, so, he lets you marry with him intentionally, it is deep to let you love him to like very much; Let you painful. If have this kind of case between spouses, do not blame opposite side , see from field force stand that you have been avenged today to know that this is your former sorry household, you want sweet as maltose accept , and conversely, will appreciate him , treasure him , do not become enemies again. Today you follow him to do as, he also follows you to do as, hatred is closed more deeply. He is angry to harm you , you bear , I am for you well , redeem great kindness I former is not good , only so, then can untie resentment hatred, otherwise resentment hatred has not been untied , the son of future generations still becomes enemies again, why bother? So today, will know that the phenomenon of life is really so, former kind next evil since, will bear evil consequence today, if you have no correct idea of field force, will complain of , untie evil consequence for the method of sinking to fall. So, conclusion is: See feelings problem from the viewpoint of power of Buddha, the stand in heart goes up , will purify our soul comes to relieve vexed restraint surmount the feelings for all living creatures; On the stand of field fruit use pay a debt of gratitude mood treat our resentment hatred with action eliminate field fruit. So, it is just the processing technique that faces feelings problem and most has wisdom.< xml:namespace prefix=O/>